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Discipline

 When a father wants to teach his young son wisdom which ultimately will enable him to ascend to the higher levels but which he cannot presently understand if he tries to induce the child to learn by saying to him "Endure the strain of discipline and instruction so that through them you may ascend to esteemed levels" the child will be unable to bear it and will not listen to him because he does not understand it.   But if the father promises him things that bring him immediate pleasure and threatens him with immediate discomfort while reassuring him with convincing tangible arguments and clear and truthful evidence it will be easier for him to endure the strain of discipline and bear with its difficulty When he reaches adolescence and his mind has matured he will understand the intended goal of his training and direct himself toward it while the pleasure for which he had been so eager at the beginning of his way will appear unimportant to him Such an upbringing proves to be a great kindness toward him



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