If the request that was asked of them, is not fulfilled he should not blame them or be disappointed\. He should in turn thank H'shem for choosing what was best for him. He should also acknowledge and thank them to the extent that they made an effort "even though it was not carried out as he- and they - had wished" pg425
Disappointment in others as well as ourselves is a lack of Bitachon in the way H'shem runs his world.
Disappointment in others as well as ourselves is a lack of Bitachon in the way H'shem runs his world.
