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Rabbenu Bachya is teaching us that the correct way to treat anyone is to know they have tried their best but the outcome is solely depended on H'shem.  This  includes " friends, business associates employees and partners". This does not only apply to others. This ideas applies to ourselves as well.   If someone asks you to do something you should try to your fullest capabilities, as he writes " He should try to do it with all his heart and focus his mind on carrying it out, provided that he is able and that the one who asked him is worthy of the effort. Then he should put his trust in GD for it's accomplishment." pg 425

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